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What If My Spouse Doesn’t Want A Divorce?


The realization that it is time to end your marriage and seek a divorce can be frustrating and confusing. Knowing what you once thought would be forever will come to an end and envisioning future divorce proceedings to come can cause great pain on many levels. To make matters worse, it is common to come to the realization that a divorce is what will be best for your life going forward, while your spouse may not agree. While this can present a particularly difficult and contentious situation, it is important to remember that you have the right to take legal action, however, there are alternative measures that can be taken that may better work in your favor.

What To Do?

The most important thing you can do is talk with your spouse and be upfront about your intentions. Beating around the bush or not addressing major issues will never work in your favor. It is best to bite the bullet and address all the tough questions immediately in order to ensure your spouse is clear on your intentions and how you feel about the relationship. During the communication, it is important to be compassionate and clear as to why now is the time you have chosen to proceed toward a divorce. Following this conversation, it is important that you maintain an open and clear channel of communication. Shutting the other person out will do far more harm than good. Giving your spouse a chance to talk and hearing out their questions and concerns is always the best thing to do.

During communication with your spouse, it is important that you assure them there are numerous ways to go through a divorce. Working with your spouse through the process and keeping each other’s best interests in mind can streamline the process and hasten the proceedings. Depending on your situation, maintaining communication can be beneficial to how the divorce progresses, for instance, you can keep the proceedings from going to a courtroom if you are able to decide on mediation or an alternative form of resolution.

However, it should be noted that all divorces are not amicable and there are some very real reasons to shut off communication with your spouse altogether. For example, if there was abuse in the relationship and you do not feel safe around your spouse, under no circumstance should you feel obligated to be in their presence.

Reach Out to Us for Help

No matter if you are the one initiating the divorce or not, going through a divorce can be very strenuous for both parties involved. Although you may want to be compassionate to your spouse and keep their best interests in mind, it is also important that you recognize the importance of agreeing on a divorce agreement that is beneficial to you. A large portion of your financial future and parenting situation will be determined in the divorce agreement, therefore, it is critical that you are making educated and informed decisions. A family law attorney can be an invaluable asset as you go through a divorce. Your attorney will be able to remain objective and work to ensure your future is protected. If you have questions or have decided it is time for a divorce, contact Attorney Sandra Bonfiglio in Fort Lauderdale for a free consultation.

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